Yes, my Queen is solar powered. On her handbag (purse) is a solar strip, that keeps her going longer than the Ever Ready Bunny.
And why is she there in perpetuity?
Because every time I walk into the kitchen and see the Royal wave, I laugh.
Now that you know about my little bit of 'silly' you need to know why I have her at all. My friend Suzette, a Canadian by birth, who lives round the corner, bought her for me for my birthday. It was a perfect gift from her because we both adore British humor and laugh a lot together. We laugh on the phone when we speak most Fridays. We laugh when we watch Downton Abbey and Maggie Smith makes a cutting comment and we ached with laughter, when we took a cake decorating class together. (You would have too if you'd seen our icing (frosting) efforts.)
Now in case you are thinking that all we do is laugh, that just wouldn't be an accurate description of our friendship. Like everyone, we both have our life challenges and we often talk about them. You've read about some of mine on this blog and Suzette certainly has hers. Suzette's eldest, Jeremy has Autism and at 27, lives at home. I do not think a day goes by without Suzette worrying about his wellbeing and quality of life.
Sometimes, When Suzette calls me, I can hear from her voice, the moment she says hello, that something is troubling her. We have both had those moments. From sharing tough news about a friend's health journey to worrying about her Dad's surgical recovery from lung cancer, we have listened and consoled each other.
But almost always some laughter creeps in. In an instant that laughter helps us to switch gears and take a momentary break from whatever heaviness is ailing. The laughter acts like a safety switch, cutting in when issues are very tough, not deflecting from them, but giving us a moment's reprieve before we delve back in, a little refreshed from the intermission.
And now, The Queen does that for me every day. As I walk into the kitchen and catch sight of her metronome hand, my stream of consciousness is interrupted by this silly sight. And for a minute, I find my self amused and refocused as she keeps waving undeterred, (except perhaps by sundown).
Each time the Queen (bless her) has broken my worried train of thought and made me smile, I take a breath and feel my whole body relax.
She is like a soothing pat on the arm,
a tickler to take a break,
a pause to stop and smile
and all without a word!
Just a wave.
And what I have realised is that we could all do with a version of the solar Queen in our lives. Something that releases the tension in our bodies and minds, even for just a moment and allows us to switch gears. A reminder to shut down for a few seconds and
smile, giggle or laugh.
There is so much scientific evidence that smiling and laughing release positive chemicals in our bodies, lower stress and help us to problem solve, because stepping away even for a minute or two can calm our thoughts.
As parents and caregivers, in high powered jobs with stressful lives, young children, aging parents and long work hours, I think we do not realize the buildup of tension in our bodies, until either we get sick or we do something in such contrast that we realise how different we can feel.
With that time crunch we all live under, a quick wave from Her Majesty might be just what we need, to give ourselves a giggle, our brains a break and our bodies the Royal treatment.
Suzette and my other dear friends are often there to give me that pause, but since none of them would agree to stand on my kitchen window sill and wave all day, The Queen is a pretty good stand in.
Long live The Queen! (and as Suzette said to me "Long may She wave!")
Please take a minute to let me know what helps you to take a break from the stresses of life and if you liked this post please remember to share it and laugh.
Talk to you soon.
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